What underlies this ‘organic bias’, i.e., I know better than you?

I suggest it’s self righteousness; a disease in its own right; there is hope tho, it’s called ‘Al-anon’ or the ‘Mankind Project’ plus others, where members decide to reject the temptation of making others the source of their pain.

Put another way, the goal is to stop attempting to manage someone’s else ‘reality’.

Good luck in the OR!